"How can you rid yourself of something you are clinging to?"
"you mean I cling to fears ? I cannot agree to that"
"Consider what your fear protects you from and you will agree. And you will see your folly"
Learning
People may complain of difficulties and seek for counseling for relief.
Yet on careful study it becomes easy to understand that such feelings of difficulties people hold on to in order to get protected from some other perceived problem.
For example people often say of headache due to tension. if one carefully studies their pattern it is easy to find that they want the headache to prevail so that they can use it as a pretext to avoid any work stretch.
Sometimes such difficulties are a pretext to avoid perceived difficulties.
NLP says "EVERY BEHAVIOR HAS A POSITIVE INTENTION"
For example
Every criticism conceals a want
Every anger conceals an expectation
Every fear conceals a seeking for safety
Every frustration conceals a seeking of relief
Every cry conceals a desire of being cared for
Once this intention is acknowledged then we can find alternate to this behavior which is not wanted,
NLP says separate the intention from behavior and fulfill the intention in more appropriate ways,
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