NLP Through ThirukkkuraL - Energy flows in the direction of focus

Energy flows in the direction of focus

KuraL
அல்லவை தேய அறம்பெருகும் நல்லவை

நாடி இனிய சொலின். 10-96

Transliteration

Allavai theya aRam perukum nallavai
naadi iniya solin

Meaning:

His sins vanish, virtues grow
whose fruitful words with sweetness flow

Explanation

If we can speak kind words with sweetness flowing in every utterance, it not only makes a positive impression about us, it not only makes others feel nice and positively impacts them, but cleanses our soul as well. Vices vanish virtue grows in us.

Coming to NLP

Energy flows in the direction of focus.

Words we utter before impacting others first affects us. Our subconscious mind does not know the difference between your or our , present or past.

Every statement we make is a reinforcement of our belief.

Even in chiding others, pinpointing mistakes of others, if we are unkindly, our mind takes it as dictum for us too. Unknowingly if we do any mistake, our subconscious mind automatically finds way to punish us.

Every expression is a process of conditioning our mind. If we practice speaking kindly then mind becomes resourceful automatically and so any past conditioning for pain or punishment is dissolved and we become automatically a positive person.

NLP says speak appropriately